Kære Alle Sammen,
Thanks
for the great e-mails and pictures this week. I really do feel loved.
Honestly, my time here on my mission has been some of the happiest time
of my life. Hands down the hardest, but it's really made me see what
matters in life. So often we chase after things that have no real value
as if they were all that mattered in the world. A few mottos I've
adopted:
"Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved." - Thomas S Monson
"Wherefore,
men are free according to the flesh; and all things are given them
which are expedient unto man. And they are free to choose liberty and
eternal lif,
through the great Mediator of all men, or to choose captivity and
death, according to the captivity and power of the devil; for he seeketh
that all men might be miserable like unto himself." - Lehi
"Life is a choice" - Me paraphrasing Lehi
It's
not profound, but it's worked for me. We are here in life to learn to
make choices and strengthen our faith, and every situation we face is an
opportunity to do both. We can choose to go along with it and surrender
our agency to a temporary circumstance or we can "choose happiness and
eternal life". A lot has been sacrificed to make that opportunity to
choose even possible (war in heaven, Adam and Eve, and the Atonement, to
name a few), and I choose to be happy. I made this my mantra when I
came to Odense, and I finally feel like it's working. At church
yesterday I heard the husband of an investigator ask one of the Elders,
"Wow, is she
always that happy? She's like a bouncing little ball of ... human ...
happiness." Success.
We had our mini-missionaries this week! Laura and Kirsa Rosenkilde.
They're cousins, both 16 years old. They were amazing. By the second day
they asked if they could try contacting by themselves, and were great
in our lessons. We surprised them by taking them to the little H C
Andersen musical in the park, and later that week they surprised us with
lunch. They'd been really secretive the past few days, sneaking off to
the store while they were contacting together, whispered phone calls to
each other. Hiding things in our fridge (there's no place to hide in
that thing, so they just put a towel over their things and made us pinky
promise not to look). It turned out to be spare rib pizza with a fun
orange juice and green ice cubes with a sugar rim (Supreme Mugwump,
we're so using it in our next mocktail night), with homemade banana cake
for desert and a big bouquet of flowers. We all got really close in the
week they were here and were, I admit, a bit teary eyed when they left
yesterday. The highlight of the week was on Saturday night on the way
home from an eating appointment with Mor (our Vietnamese mom). It had
rained aaaaaaaall day, and we were just dragging ourselves home. Then,
in the park across from the train station, we came across the biggest
puddle I've ever seen - 25 feet across and about a foot deep. We didn't
even hesitate. Kirsa and I dropped our rain coats and bags and ran for
it. Laura and Søster Johnson followed close behind. It didn't matter. We
were soaked to the skin anyway. We ran around and splashed and slipped
and even taught the minis how to play Marco Polo. Then on the way home,
dripping with every step, we sang primary songs in Danish at the top of
our lungs. It was ) 9 on a Saturday night. We were just competing with
the music from the bars anyway. I'm so excited to see them at Stake
Conference!
Søster Johnson and I taught St for the first time too. We both
prayed about it and felt it should be us, so the girls had fun
contacting together again. He was attentive as we went through the first
lesson, and really liked a lot of the scriptures we shared and was
really good at applying them to his life. When we asked, "Will you
continue to read in the Book of Mormon, and pray to God to ask for
yourself if it is true?" His response was, "Sure, but I don't need to. I
know it's true." That was when our jaws hit the floor. We nearly began
to cry, the Spirit was so strong. We asked him how he'd come to know
that, and he said that he just knew the Book of Mormon was true, it just
had to be, and that if it was true, then Joseph Smith was a prophet and
that this was the right church. He knew it 20 years ago. It just took
him some time to be able to accept it. We asked him to be baptized. He
got pensive and said he'd been thinking about it, and needed to ask God
first. We have another appointment with him this week.
Things are going well with our other investigators too. Gi is back
from Italy now, and her response to Søster Johnson and Kirsa's lesson on
acting in faith once you've received an answer (she's in the process of
praying to know the truth) was, "Well, duh." With Ol, he's just excited
to learn as much as possible. We had to cancel the week before last
because we couldn't get a member to come, and he was genuinely sad. He
really is "hungering and thirsting after knowledge". He also likes that
our church encourages challenging what's said and asking God for
yourself, rather than just relying on whatever the priest says without
ever reading the scripture for yourself.
We had our District Meeting today on a naked giant. True story.
There's a hill in Fredericia where rock peeps through at the top just
right, so it looks like a head and shoulders. To be funny, the Danes
added some carved hands in front of him and shaped the hill around him
(including a booty) to look like a giant lying face down draping over
the hill. It's actually pretty cool. You can only imagine where the
Elders decided to have the meeting. It's also conveniently next to a
bowling alley for a District Activity. We played around for a while,
then divided into partnerships for a tournament. Elder Richards and I
were pretty clearly the worst bowlers, so we joined forces. We were the
first ones out, of course, so while the others faced off for the
semi-finals we played golf bowling. The point is to get the lowest score
possible. With bumpers. We totally rocked at that game when we got to
face off against the next people kicked out of the main tournament. If
nothing else, we're consistently good at sucking.
This Sunday we had a return missionary's talk and a departing
missionary's farewell in the same day. It was really a special meeting.
Every time a month has 5 Sundays, the fifth Sunday's Relief
Society/Priesthood meetings are combined. This just happened to be a
fifth Sunday, so for the combined meeting they just had the return
missionary stand in front and answer everyone's questions about his
mission in Greece. The ward is really close-knit here, and it was the
bishop's son, so everyone knew and loved this kid. It was funny though.
In sacrament meeting he bore his testimony in Greek, then continued
talking in English for a second before realizing, "Oops, wrong language
..." and switching to Danish again. In the combined meeting he had a
tougher time with Danish, and every time he forgot a word or a phrase
he'd say it in English and the whole ward would yell it back to him in
Danish in perfect unison. It was hilarious. He has a faint Greek accent
when he speaks Danish too. Søster Johnson and I have been trying to
speak more Danish, and with the mini-missionaries here it was just a
Danish week. Fair warning to you all, I've been told I've developed a
weird accent. People thought that back home too though, so I have no
idea who's right. Kirsa's mom actually thought I was Danish when she
first met me. So did our mission leader. That's always a huge
compliment. I've been told that I have very distinct Copenhagen accent. I
wish I could describe it too you. Okay, Jylland is the farthest west,
the part connected to Germany. That's out in the country. They speak
very rollingly, and it's been described as "deedumdeedumdeedum, ikke
aw'" (a weird Jysk form of ikke også, which translates to, "and not" and
when tacked onto the end of a sentence is the equivalent of "right?" in
Enlglish). On Fynn, the island in the middle where I am now, it's been
described as "dadumdadumdadumdadum, ik' os'." It gets more clipped and
quicker the farther east you go, until you hit Copenhagen, where it's
"prrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, ik." That was comforting. I thought my Danish just
suddenly got stupid when I came to Odense becaus I couldn't understand
anyone and they couldn't understand me, and they use a lot of different
weird words and expressions I'd never heard before. In southern Jylland
they have a weird Danish/German accent and blend a lot of the languages.
For a country that could fit into Utah 5 times and has only 5.5 million
people, they manage to be really diverse. It's always really fun.
Oh, and a funny story. We found a new investigator named Ab. She's in
her mid 20's, Islamic, but interested in getting an Arabic Book of
Mormon. When Laura and I went to drop it off and teach the first lesson,
she listened for about thirty seconds, then whipped her laptop around
to show us a video she already had loaded on youtube. It was a former
Christian minister who converted to Islam sharing his conversion story
at a conference and basically bashing the Bible. We were able to
politely interrupt by branching off one of his comments to explain the
need for the Book of Mormon as an additional witness of Christ. "Oh, but
Jesus isn't the Christ."
"As a Christian church, we believe him to be the Son of God and our Savior."
"But he's not. It says so in the Quran. The Bible is a lie."
"I'm not here to try to convince you. It's simply our belief."
"But it's wrong."
"I know our religions disagree on that point, and that's fine. We really
have a lot of respect for how strong you are in your faith. We really
have a lot in common, and we're glad we could come share this message
about our church with you."
"Yes, you're very sweet girls. You're just wrong."
Sigh. We managed to dodge out before she really got going. She offered
us tea and said we could come back any time, and still wanted to keep
the Book of Mormon, even though she doesn't think it has a chance of
being true. I can't even begin to explain the awkwardness of the
situation, especially with a mini-missionary along. She was a real
trooper though. She bore her testimony and then helped me tactfully
leave the situation. On four separate occasions I nearly just responded
with,
"Well, lady, that's your opinion, isn't it?" I've never had someone try
that hard to convert missionaries before. I don't know what it is about
Odense. When Ældste Stoffey served here, an Islamic man invited him and
his companion to see their mosque. The Elders were curious, so they went
along with it. I would have too. As soon as they stepped inside the
man's friends jumped out from behind the corner and locked the doors,
forcing the Elders to sit there for an hour or too and listen to them
preach. Don't get me wrong. I really do have a deep respect for the
Islamic faith and the people who follow it. People in Odense are just
crazy in general, I guess, regardless of their racial or religious
background.
And I've got five minutes, so I'll add a fun Danish food I'm going to
make you all eat when I get home. Danes love open-faced sandwiches and
have very strict rules about what goes on what. They're also eaten with a
fork and knife. Danes also have wheat bread made with dark wheat that
hasn't really been rolled, so it's very thick and dark and heavy. You
take a slice of that. Then spread butter on it. Then set potatoes on it
(that have been boiled and sliced into circles). Then put some shredded
parsley on. Then onions (traditionally they're circles of raw red
onions, but roasted onion bits are becoming more popular). Then put a
bit of mayonaisse on top. Voila. You're eating like a Dane. Okay, it
sounds disgusting and weird, but it's actually delicious. Another
popular one is the thick bread, liverpastej (paste made from the ground
liver of a cow, mixed with spices), bacon, cucumbers, and asier or
pickled sweet red beets. I know, I know, I was hesitant to eat it too,
but it's actually really good. You'll be spared from that one though
because liverpastej has to stay refrigerated and I don't think I'll be
able to find it in the states.
So what's going on with the
Olympics? The opening ceremonies must have been fun. Any favorites this
year? What events are you all following?
Jeg elsker jer!
Hannah
Aunt Rachel & Uncle David - Wow, I think you made me blush.
Thank you. I'm glad you're all having so much fun in Utah! The people
there aren't half bad. We always love when you come to visit. You all
are just so much fun. I'll just have to catch you next time!
Camilla - Thanks! The mission really is great. I hope you enjoyed
EFY and are loving your summer break! Thanks for your letters too. I'm
so impressed by the young woman you've become. It's amazing.
Mikayla - You've always been a great role model too. You're always so
good with your sisters, and your testimony and dedication to everything
that you do really does set a great example. My friend Katie (remember
her from when we lived in California?) and I are planning a road trip
after we get back. We'll have to swing by and visit you guys.
Katie - Epic success on the gifts. They're brilliant. He even
mentioned them in his e-mail. He really is a great Dad. I can't even
count the times he helped me with math, walking me through step by step,
hot chocolate after hot chocolate. Congrats on your grades! You're
really knocking out all of your credits early. I just hope I'm home for
your graduation!
Grandma and Grandpa - It's so good to see pictures of you! You two
are doing such great work out there. Grandpa, you've lost a lot of
weight. How are you feeling? You're looking great! Grandma, I'm just
happy to see your smile. It never fails to brighten my day.
Dad - HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I know just what you mean with St. I
wish there were some way to let the former missionaries know. It
actually gave me hope for a lot of former investigators, like Ni, who
will one day open up to it. Of that I'm sure. It definitely puts things
in perspective though. Hopefully with all your reminiscing of your
mission days, you'll be in the perfect setting to get in touch with
former Elder Kjeldsen. I sent off the full contact info. Sorry that took
so long. I'm glad your birthday presents were appropriately geeky. I
promise, your card is in the mail. I don't think it got there on time,
but I tried. I owe you a real birthday gift though. How about lunch some
time when I get back. You can relive the glory days of your mission. I
love you too.